How to get over a breakup!

Another one of the lectures i’ve been given in my Psychology class. It is probably something we’ve all gone through at some point in our lives. Here are some few tips as to how you can deal with breakups.

1. Don’t be in contact with your EX.

2. Allow yourself or the dumpee to grieve. You have to let yourself hurt.

3. Surround yourself with supportive friends. (not those who tell you, “he wasn’t even that hot anyways!!”)

4. Dont put yourself down so much. Think rationally.
”I didn’t fail, the relationship failed”

5. Also a good time to pamper yourself. Take care of yourself

6. Go out and meet new people BUT be careful of the rebound romance.

7. Good time to take up something new! Build Self-efficacy

8. Don’t expect the rest of the world to be on hold while your going through this

9. if you find yourself obsessing over your ex, get help. You aren’t showing emotional regulation.

10. In the real world, we need to be able to cope with our problems.


My favorite Youtubers


Jen from Clothes Encounters! I would have to say she is one of my favorite youtuber. I’ve been watching her videos ever since the beginning when she used to do videos with Sarah(best friend). Her style is edgy, vintage, wearable and comfortable! I love that she thrifts! Her editing skills are amazing and all her videos have great music to go with the theme of the video.


Jarmaine! I love this chick, she’s hilarious and knows how to have a good laugh. She has another channel JLovesMac1 where she does makeup, talks about clothes, typical girl stuff. I like JarmaineTV better because she totally relates to girls around their early 20s. She talks about confidence, working out, how to deal with friends, living alone and boys!
Check her out, you’ll fall in love with her dogs (benji is my favorite)

Jen from Head to Toe

Probably my favorite make up gurus of all time. Every since i discovered her i pretty much fell in love! She’s korean, tiny, has mono lids (like me), and seems like the sweetest/humble person! I’m not a big fan of watching makeup tutorials but she makes it hard not to watch sometimes haha


Igor Turovskiy




In the midst of studying for my midterms i thought to myself… “I need to find a way to de-stress after all this studying…” I’ve always been interested in painting and have taken art classes back in highschool, but never thought to try painting for personal pleasure.

So.. as any typical student, gave myself an excuse to procrastinate to watch videos on youtube about oil painting/ acrylic painting. I came across this video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X1EF3X0kecM) of Igor Turovskiy painting and was totally entranced in his art. I’m not a crazy fan of art but just how all the colors came together and the general feeling i got when i saw his works made me in awe and gave me more motivation to start painting… but ill need a blow torch to do paintings like this

Source: http://fineartamerica.com/profiles/igor-turovskiy.html



My everyday look for a “Fall hairdo”


Simple hairdo